How Jesus’ Humanity Helps Us Do the Right Thing

Sometimes it’s hard to do the right thing, especially when I strongly feel like doing something that’s not the right thing.  To be specific, I feel like asking this beautiful girl who happens to also like me (do you realize what the chances of a beautiful girl actually liking me are?) out for some dinner or someother type of date, when in fact I know for various reasons that I really wouldn’t be able to take this farther than a date or two.  But I’m going to resist and instead just type out this entry on how we can draw upon Jesus’s humanity for strength. 

The amazing thing about Jesus is that He came to this earth as God in man – born as a baby.  We’ve tried to make sense of this, but it has historically resulted in us making Him either less than God or not human, resulting in something like the Arian heresy.  Remember; heresy is bad – orthodoxy, good!  When we take the humanity out of Jesus, so goes the power.  Jesus being fully man helps Him help us.  Hebrews 2:16-18 reads, “For indeed He does not give aid to angels, but He does give aid to the seed of Abraham.  Therefore, in all things He had to be made like His brethren, that He might be a merciful and faithful High Priest in things pertaining to God, to make propitiation for the sins of the people.  For in that He Himself has suffered being tempted, He is able to aid those who are tempted.”

This is the mysterious part of Jesus – for whatever reasons, even God couldn’t escape the need to come to earth as a man and “walk in our shoes” and become a more complete and perfect High Priest.  And by High Priest, I mean helper.  That just doesn’t make sense – God had to become more complete, more perfect, but it is true.  So even God fully subscribed and lived out the truth that you can’t lead people to places you haven’t been.

And as I think about the fact that Jesus was tempted in every way just as I am (Hebrews 2:18 and 4:15) I feel my heart filled with His power and grace to walk away from temptation and honor God by doing what’s best for myself and the person or people affected by my actions.  For Hebrews 4:15-16 reads, “For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.  Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.”  The choice to do the right thing in all circumstances is mine and the power and grace to actually follow through on that is also mine by reaching out to Jesus for it, who currently is at the right hand of the Father.  And He can only provide it because He was in the same boat that I am two thousand years ago as a 20something year-old guy with plenty of beautiful women around him.  And He overcame just like He wants to help me overcome.  Amen.

For Guys, It’s All About Protection

For us guys, it’s all about protection; and I’m talking about a lot more than Trojan protection.I am all that is man, hear my roar!

We’re always protecting something – it’s built into us and recorded and recounted from the writings of antiquity (e.g. the Odyssey) to the big screen (e.g. Gladiator).  The more noble examples are of men fighting to protect their women, children, ideals and beliefs, and freedom; and often the most painful moments are when a man comes up short in his efforts to protect; such as when Maximus Decimus Meridius was too late in getting home only to find the charred bodies of his wife and son hanging over the yard.

Unfortunately, all of us guys are guilty of channeling our protective instincts towards selfish ends at times by steamrolling over people, often family and friends close to us, in the name of protecting our agendas and pleasure-seeking.  I suppose in different seasons of life, us guys can misdirect our protective energies.  The greatest failures of men throughout history and literature are when they fail to protect – from the fall of man as recorded in Genesis to Richard Heene making a spectacle out of his “balloon boy” son in the search for fame and publicity.

As a Twentysomething man, I have a tremendous amount of energy and am very hungry for life: hungry to accomplish big things, hungry for physical intimacy, hungry for approval and validation.  I have a choice:

  • channel my protective energies towards getting my way using people for my own ends;
  • or protect my heart from such selfishness, and protect those around me by actually considering their needs and comfort first – especially when it comes to how I related to women my age.

The fact is us guys need to protect; it’s just a matter of who and what we’re protecting.  What and who do you specifically find yourself fighting for and protecting on a daily basis?  What and who are really worth protecting in your life; and what are the real threats to yourself and those you care about?